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Some people would think that I’m crazy, whilst others would certainly not believe that I would ever be able to keep silent for 10 whole days.\u00a0 But that\u2019s exactly what I did!<\/strong><\/p>\n

There was no contact whatsoever with any other student or with my loved ones. Even reading and writing weren’t allowed! The only communication that was allowed was with the teacher and the course manager.<\/p>\n

This seems a crazy thing to do but I was drawn to visiting a silent retreat. I cannot explain where the urge came from, I had wanted to do it for nearly 2 years, but finding the right time was always difficult.\u00a0 After all, I run a busy practice in Leigh and\u00a0I have my clients to look after. Not to mention a partner, a house to run and certain commitments to my dad after my mum had passed away a few years earlier.<\/p>\n

The purpose of the silent retreat was also to learn further meditation techniques<\/a>, solely focusing on those techniques to reap the benefits from it.\u00a0 The day started at 4am, meditation began at 4:30am and for me lights out was at 9:15pm.<\/p>\n

There was a dedicated 11 hours of meditation each day.\u00a0 We ate 2 meals a day, breakfast was at 6:30am, dinner at 11am.\u00a0 As it was my first time I was allowed 2 pieces of fruit at 5pm.\u00a0 The diet was vegetarian: I’ve never eaten so many vegetables!<\/strong><\/p>\n

It was the silence that was a big test for me, as I already meditate regularly.\u00a0It was against the rules to have any contact in any way with any other student.\u00a0Females and males were segregated throughout the whole 10 days.\u00a0When you walked through a door we couldn\u2019t hold the door open for each other or thank people if they did.\u00a0 And when I feel off a bench in the garden, which was amusing we weren\u2019t supposed to laugh.<\/p>\n

Oh my goodness my mind played tricks on me, at one time I thought everyone knew each other and they were all at a party without me.\u00a0 I had a number of nightmares, I started thinking of the ladies looked like friends of mine.\u00a0 Apparently this is all normal.\u00a0 I started to wonder what it must be like if you are captured with no contact with anyone except your captures.<\/p>\n

On a positive side though, I learnt so much about myself, for instance, about how hard I push myself and there really is no need to and what is really important to me.\u00a0 I re-evaluated everything in my life, managed to see things from a different perspective.\u00a0 How I spend so much time \u2018in my head thinking\u2019 rather than being aware of my body and more importantly my well-being.<\/p>\n

Before the Retreat I was forever rushing around, doing this, doing that.\u00a0 Amazingly since I have come back, I\u2019ve slowed my pace down, I\u2019m more relaxed, and I\u2019ve cancelled so many things I thought I needed or wanted to do. This has made my life so much more simple and easy.\u00a0\u00a0 And I\u2019m putting more effort into the things that are important to me.<\/p>\n

The meditation technique is really simple and easy to do, it can be done at any time even when you get a few spare minutes.\u00a0 It helps you focus your mind, and can help you sleep.\u00a0 I also found it helped me to really \u2018listen\u2019 to my body, allowing me to understand myself better than I have ever done before.<\/p>\n

Overall it was a fantastic opportunity and amazingly it is one that I will repeat but not for another year!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Some people would think that I\u2019m crazy, whilst others would certainly not believe that I would ever be able to keep silent for 10 whole days. <\/p>\n

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